Computer Dating and Safety First

By Joy Mitchell

Computer dating can really be enormous entertainment, but you must not neglect your personal protection when you are trying to find a spouse. There are a few distinctive precautions because we are talking about computer dating, but it is essentially just common sense. Just use your common sense as you would if you were dating normally off line and not much can go wrong. The minimum safety measures you should take, cover the areas of protecting yourself and your equipment, ie your computer hardware and protecting yourself both physically and mentally.

Defending Your Computer:

As a general rule, when you go off into cyberspace and the Internet, you must take undeniable minimum steps to protect your computer equipment and system devices. It is probably less likely that you will meet someone focused on attacking your computer and causing it injury on a dating site but you never know. The opposite can be said of chat rooms, some nutters do go in there looking to inflict havoc on people's computers.

Consequently, you need to have a minimum of a decent firewall to shield your computer from malicious invasion and anti-virus protection for your email to stop people sending you viruses either on purpose or by mistake. These pieces of software will also shield your computer when you search (for) websites and interact computer. These two bases can be covered free of charge, if you need them for non-commercial use or you may want to reinforce your defenses by upgrading for a small fee. A free firewall can be got from ZoneAlarm and free anti-virus (AV) software from AVG.

These two firms are not the only ones offering free solutions and you should search your favourite search engine using the terms separately. Pick one of each and install on default if you are not sure.

Defending Yourself:

You have to take care of yourself, too, primarily by choosing suitable dating sites. Seek out and select a trustworthy computer dating service. This is easier done than you would think. You could begin by asking around your friends, neighbours, co-workers and others you may know who have tried computer dating, and see which places they suggest. However you may not want them to know what you are doing, in which case you should search for ?online dating services? and maintain a note pad of their URLs or website links, the costs, rules and conventions, the complete contact details of each and any other useful information you find important.

A high-quality dating site will give you safety tips about disclosing too much information and meeting contacts. If all else fails or you want a good place to start, try "dating.the-real-way.com". Then, you can evaluate each website. Try only those sites where you feel safe and sidestep the others. But take care and protect yourself and your computer ? with the correct tools and information! - 30299

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