Tips To Teach You How To Get Back An Ex

By Jade Munro

One strategy that everyone will agree with in how to get back an ex is patience and to have a strategic plan of action before diving in head first.

The relationship took time to grow and it will take even more time to get reacquainted with one another. Don't put your own life on hold keep living it to the fullest. You can bet your ex has not stopped living theirs.

Become each others friend first then lover second. This allows you both to discover each others personalities, dislikes and likes all over again and let's you feel more comfortable in opening up to one another.

Whatever you do, don't crowd them or harass them as it will only do more damage and the relationship may be beyond repair because of these actions.

Show your ex your new self confidence and however things turn out, remember to accept the outcome calmly. Show them you're a better person by not letting it devastate you.

Make yourself over and have fun with it. Get a sassy new haircut and color. Buy some real sexy clothes and new jewelry. What girl does not feel better after a shopping spree? Take time to learn about you and it will only add to your appearance and confidence.

Keep the communication going each way. Be open and truthful, this is how the relationship gets rebuilt. Trust and honesty are the main foundations for a solid relationship, whether it is marriage, friendship, etc.

Dress your best even if it is just a quick run to the store. You would hate to accidentally run into your ex with no makeup in sweats and looking terrible. Looking great makes them think "wow" that was mine and I want it back before someone else notices them.

Put your life in order and be independent. Independence is a real turn on for others to see how self sufficient you are and that you do not need someone to take care of you as you take care of yourself.

Do not call your ex first let them take that initiative to get the communication lines rolling. Never call more than once a day or even once a week as they could take this as stalking like behavior. If you are out drinking with friends by no means make the phone call you want to your ex. This will not turn out well by any means.

Make sure you only ask your closest most intimate friend for advice on how to get an ex back. Asking their friends may make you look desperate and word will float over to your ex as well.

Make a new you with all this alone time. Take a trip you have always dreamed of with your friends, start a business or try out a total makeover from head to toe. Bring positive thoughts with you wherever you go and only positive things will be returned to you. - 30299

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