An Slippery Sexuality And Sex Terrain With Christian Intimacy: Save Your Relationship

By Paula Terst

A lot of people think that Christians don't get intimate. To a certain extent this is true because if a couple isn't married they can't get sexually intimate. But there are so many ways for Christian lovers to get really close and connected on a physical and emotional level. And Christian Intimacy isn't even about being physical and emotional in non-sexual ways; they can even get intimate on a spiritual level as well.

Physical intimacy can be achieved without a couple having to side-line their religious principles. There is nowhere in the Bible that it says physical contact with a woman can a send a couple straight to the pits of Hell. Christians that aren't married as yet can touch each other and arouse each others feeling in a non-sinful way. Holding hands has the effect of bringing flesh together. The warmth generated by holding hands elevates feelings beyond levels unimaginable if done with the right emotion.

Kiss whenever you can. Don't hold your feelings back and feel embarrassed when you kiss because kissing is just a way of showing your affection. Kiss your partner on the lips; around the neck and even around the fore arm. The warmth in a kiss brings you very close to each other. The kisses can be gentle or kiss, it all depends on what you want for each other.

Whenever you're sitting together you should put your arm over her shoulder. This makes your partner feel protected and cared for. Intimacy can be elevated by holding your partner in your arms and letting her head rest against your chest. The feeling of your hearts beating against each other intensifies the emotions between you. You should also rub her back if you have your arm around it.

Physical contact is not the only way of elevating intimacy. Another way is by sharing your emotions with each other. Truthful talk about your feeling for each other will make you feel close and attached. At the same time you should also talk about your dreams and aspirations. Dreams and ambitions are normally kept secret; exposing these whilst cuddling can be a certain way of being intimate.

The past is a great source of emotional conversation. When people convey their experiences they tend to connect if these experiences are shared intimately. In a lot of cases people who talk about their relationship-issues like trust and commitment-get very close indeed. And even though couples can disagree they leave the conversation feeling like they bonded intimately.

Spiritually you can also connect and get intimate. If I were a Christian I would flip through the pages of the Bible to Songs Of Solomon and read my woman a sweet passage of poetry. I would also pray with my woman and pray for her at the same time. Doing this will bring you closer than ever before. - 30299

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