Saving A Marriage

By Cindy Surette

The wedding could have been out of a fairy tale. Two people who were deeply in love came to the altar in front of loved ones to pledge their love for life. The first months and years were wedded bliss and you could not believe the fortune you had found in being able to marry your best friend for the rest of your life. Now, since time has passed, you have drifted apart. This is more than buyer's remorse; it is a marriage that that seems to be headed down a dead end road toward another divorce statistic. You can put change the end to this fairy tale that has become a nightmare. You can be a part of saving a marriage on the verge of divorce even if it is your own marriage.

The two of you have built a history together. While part of that history may be difficult, it is history. Remember back to those days the we have just described where wedded life was bliss. That too is a part of your history together as is the time you spent dating. That was a good history and if you are able to move beyond the recent hurts, there may still be hope for this fairy tale marriage.

There was a spark when you first met that began to grow. As you got to know one another, you could hardly stand being apart for only a few minutes, but now you have been separated for months, and you fear is that all is lost. It does not have to be over forever.

There was a time when you could not wait to see your spouse after work. Now any planned encounter is dreaded and a chance encounter only ends in tears. You dread seeing the one you once loved.

At one time, you thought nothing could come between you, but now someone else has entered the relationship. Is there hope for your marriage?

All is not lost. You can begin saving a marriage about to end in divorce. - 30299

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