Tyranny and oppression mark world history like a plague. Terror, violence, and social abuses are almost commonplace. A lone gunman kills a dozen and wounds over forty unsuspecting people in the name of religion. Hate crimes threaten everyone. Prejudice, discrimination, and reverse discrimination affect us all.
Nowhere is this battle more evident than in our homes. Today, marriages in America face huge threats from society as well as confusion within our homes. The desire for freedom, and the oppression of the weak leave no one untouched.
Think about your own marriage. Is there conflict over decision making, who is in charge, or feelings of neglect? Do the forces of oppression touch your home? Are there abuses? Or is your marriage and home untouched by these forces?
Where can we find foundational principles to guide us in our marriages? As a Christian minister, I have discovered some critical principles revealed in the Bible, however, I have been pleasantly surprised to find that these same ideas are also recommended by many of the authorities today on success in marriage.
First Concept : Marriages thrive on mutuality. Whether you come from a Biblical perspective or just want a great marriage, this concept works. When husband and wife mutually give themselves to each other, both thrive. When husband and wife plan, work, and cooperate together, everyone wins.
Second Principle : Male leadership is vital. The seed of life comes from the husband, but successful marriage demands much much more. The Husband needs to set the pace for the marriage and family. He must show the way of integrity and industry. Still, he needs to lead with compassion, understanding, and consideration for the needs and wants of others even to the point of self sacrifice.
This leadership includes obligations to protect his wife and family from all manner of dangers. There are thieves, robbers, gangs, enemies, and evil forces that threaten the family. The husband is charged with the responsibility of protection from all threats.
Principle C: Providing for the needs of his family is the duty of the husband. With hard works and self sacrifice, the husband is expected to supply the needs of his family. A dedicated wife will assist her husband and encourage him in his effort to meet this responsibility.
Fourth Concept : A wife honors and respects her husband assisting and supporting her husband. She willingly gives herself to her husband to meet his needs and give her family perpetual blessing. At her husband's side, she stands. She works. She helps him become everything he is capable of becoming. She encourages and lifts up her husband as he strives to provide for her and his family.
In a sense, woman must submit herself to her husband, but notice the word "sub..mit" actually involves giving oneself into the mission of the family. This is not a matter of wills. When the family battles over control, everyone loses.
Subjection and oppression ruin marriages. Dictatorial tyranny destroys. A man who behaves in such a way, cripples his marriage. On the other hand, a husband who loves his wife will listen intently to her and respond with self sacrificing generosity. A wife who truly loves her husband will honor his efforts, encourage and respect him, and stand with him against all the pressures of the world.
When husband fulfills his role as defined by these Biblical principles, the marriage and family are blessed.
Marriages thrive when wives dedicate themselves to their husbands standing with them and for them.
Do you want a marriage that is blessed? Do you want a marriage full of love and understanding? Do you want freedom from oppression and empowered love? Then check out the resources below. - 30299
Nowhere is this battle more evident than in our homes. Today, marriages in America face huge threats from society as well as confusion within our homes. The desire for freedom, and the oppression of the weak leave no one untouched.
Think about your own marriage. Is there conflict over decision making, who is in charge, or feelings of neglect? Do the forces of oppression touch your home? Are there abuses? Or is your marriage and home untouched by these forces?
Where can we find foundational principles to guide us in our marriages? As a Christian minister, I have discovered some critical principles revealed in the Bible, however, I have been pleasantly surprised to find that these same ideas are also recommended by many of the authorities today on success in marriage.
First Concept : Marriages thrive on mutuality. Whether you come from a Biblical perspective or just want a great marriage, this concept works. When husband and wife mutually give themselves to each other, both thrive. When husband and wife plan, work, and cooperate together, everyone wins.
Second Principle : Male leadership is vital. The seed of life comes from the husband, but successful marriage demands much much more. The Husband needs to set the pace for the marriage and family. He must show the way of integrity and industry. Still, he needs to lead with compassion, understanding, and consideration for the needs and wants of others even to the point of self sacrifice.
This leadership includes obligations to protect his wife and family from all manner of dangers. There are thieves, robbers, gangs, enemies, and evil forces that threaten the family. The husband is charged with the responsibility of protection from all threats.
Principle C: Providing for the needs of his family is the duty of the husband. With hard works and self sacrifice, the husband is expected to supply the needs of his family. A dedicated wife will assist her husband and encourage him in his effort to meet this responsibility.
Fourth Concept : A wife honors and respects her husband assisting and supporting her husband. She willingly gives herself to her husband to meet his needs and give her family perpetual blessing. At her husband's side, she stands. She works. She helps him become everything he is capable of becoming. She encourages and lifts up her husband as he strives to provide for her and his family.
In a sense, woman must submit herself to her husband, but notice the word "sub..mit" actually involves giving oneself into the mission of the family. This is not a matter of wills. When the family battles over control, everyone loses.
Subjection and oppression ruin marriages. Dictatorial tyranny destroys. A man who behaves in such a way, cripples his marriage. On the other hand, a husband who loves his wife will listen intently to her and respond with self sacrificing generosity. A wife who truly loves her husband will honor his efforts, encourage and respect him, and stand with him against all the pressures of the world.
When husband fulfills his role as defined by these Biblical principles, the marriage and family are blessed.
Marriages thrive when wives dedicate themselves to their husbands standing with them and for them.
Do you want a marriage that is blessed? Do you want a marriage full of love and understanding? Do you want freedom from oppression and empowered love? Then check out the resources below. - 30299
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