If you can take on everything that happens, then you are truly prepared for a relationship. It might end abruptly, so be forewarned. If that happens and you are not ready for it, you are doomed. At that time one of the options may be to let go. Or if you are gutsy and willing to call a spade a spade, you can plan how to get your ex girlfriend back.
If a relationship is heading southward, the best thing that one can do is to keep the communication channels open. That way can you not only save yourself but also your girlfriend from an impending heartbreak. And who knows this quality of yours brings you together again.
A little honest introspection will reveal why you split in the first place. You will know exactly what the issues are and how to resolve them. And it is imperative to nip such issues now before they crop up again in your life.
While you may be ready to start the relationship up again, your ex girl will not appreciate your saying that you want to get back together if you aren't willing to work out what went wrong.
If you are being honest and mean that, then there is no reason that you will not get your ex back, you will. Just be responsive and appreciative of her feelings towards you. Remember every compromising formula must end in a win-win situation.
You see there is nothing permanent in this life. The same applies to relationships as well. So if you are willing to meet her half way, how do you think she is going to respond? She too is going to meet you half way on the path of love, togetherness, and peace.
In order to make the relationship work with your ex girl you can ask various family members to help you. While this is a good idea you should remember that sometimes you will not appreciate the advice that you are hearing. If you can accept that some of these views are accurate then you can choose what direction to move in next.
In case everything goes topsy-turvy and you end up being more bitter and frustrated. Take heart! There is something better in store for you. Get up and get going. The failure is not in fallng - it is in staying there.
Even after displaying amply that you are in forgive and forget mode, the things may not fall as you wished. Move on, there is no point looking at a closed door forlornly. Just ensure that it is shut firmly so that the past does not haunt you. - 30299
If a relationship is heading southward, the best thing that one can do is to keep the communication channels open. That way can you not only save yourself but also your girlfriend from an impending heartbreak. And who knows this quality of yours brings you together again.
A little honest introspection will reveal why you split in the first place. You will know exactly what the issues are and how to resolve them. And it is imperative to nip such issues now before they crop up again in your life.
While you may be ready to start the relationship up again, your ex girl will not appreciate your saying that you want to get back together if you aren't willing to work out what went wrong.
If you are being honest and mean that, then there is no reason that you will not get your ex back, you will. Just be responsive and appreciative of her feelings towards you. Remember every compromising formula must end in a win-win situation.
You see there is nothing permanent in this life. The same applies to relationships as well. So if you are willing to meet her half way, how do you think she is going to respond? She too is going to meet you half way on the path of love, togetherness, and peace.
In order to make the relationship work with your ex girl you can ask various family members to help you. While this is a good idea you should remember that sometimes you will not appreciate the advice that you are hearing. If you can accept that some of these views are accurate then you can choose what direction to move in next.
In case everything goes topsy-turvy and you end up being more bitter and frustrated. Take heart! There is something better in store for you. Get up and get going. The failure is not in fallng - it is in staying there.
Even after displaying amply that you are in forgive and forget mode, the things may not fall as you wished. Move on, there is no point looking at a closed door forlornly. Just ensure that it is shut firmly so that the past does not haunt you. - 30299
About the Author:
Simi Surin is an expert in saving lovers from heartaches. Her heartfelt advice about how to repair relationships has often resulted in... forever yours. She has a website loaded with practical and realistic tips to save relationships on the rocks.
