Your Marriage May Have Troubles

By Katie Cheung

People always want to have perfect marriage. Having a happy marriage isn't that easy, it needs lots of efforts. There are many symptoms which can prove an unhappy marriage. I am going to talk about some symptoms, if you find both you and your partner got them, it is necessary for you to beware of your marriage.

The first and the most obvious sign is that the husband and wife always disagree with each other. Having a unhappy marriage, people usually offend and do not respect to each other. Some people will hurt the other person by pernicious actions. For example, swear or even physically hurt the other. This will cause destructive effect to their future.

Moreover, when either one partner began not to communicate, this is absolutely a symptom of an unsuccessful marriage. Some couples may stop talking with each other, while some may want to keep a distance. As well as, they stop sharing their thoughts and feelings and stop consulting each other, no matter home affairs or personal issues. Having unhappy marriage is a issue that should be seriously solved, but people always choose to bury themselves with distractions.

Furthermore, many couples will become secretive about their affairs when they face problems in their marriages. They may have secret phone conversations, or switch off phones immediately when they suddenly see their partners. When your partner don't share their hopes or dreams with you, you need to aware of it. It's because a happy couple will talk about their plans for future with each other.

If you find out that your partner would like to spend more time with friends rather than you, it means that there are problems in your marriage. Moreover, your partner may even do anything in order to escape from you. Long working hours, staying alone with friends and prevent attending any parties are some indications of a dissatisfied marriage. Escapism is often recognized if one often behaves in that one.

Hugs, Kiss or praising are some essential elements in a marriage. If either of couples fail to show these love affections, this symbolizes that you have to do something to ignite the sparks. Comparison with others, showing appreciation to others are something that a spouse would do. Intimacy is crucial in a marriage and it is an indication of emotional connection. Lacking intimacy in a marriage is an indication of dissatisfaction.

Don't let fornication and partner infidelity occur in your marriage. Once these occur, it's hard to recover from an affair, as there is no trust in your relationship anymore. A cheating husband or wife is absolutely showing an unhappy marriage. If your partner start to have changes in appearance, have secret phone conversations, or even have huge credit card spending when they are not with you, it is a serious problem.

Many couples have unrealistic expectations of each other, as well as being dissatisfied. This will make the marriage becomes an unhappy one. There are also examples of the couples began to lose interest with each too. - 30299

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