The time after a split is dangerous and what you do now can pull your relationship together again or make it a lot harder to reunite. If you want to learn how to win your ex back you need to avoid bad behavior. Try not to blow your chances by acting strangely.
Here are 3 things not to do:
1. Do not try to contact your ex. After splitting you must observe a period of no-contact. It sets the stage for what is to follow. If you continually attempt to text or call your ex they will be pushed away. Try not to go down this route.
How do you think your ex will feel when the telephone rings? They will be thinking "Oh no! Is that my ex again?" You don't want them to think negatively about you. You want them to be reminded of the good times whenever their thoughts turn to you.
2. Do not cling on to them. If you act needy and try to get their attention they will think badly of you. They will feel pressured and this will cause problems.
Showing that you can stand on your own two feet with self-respect and dignity will make you attractive to your ex. It will start the process of creating doubt in their mind as they will think you are handling things well. Even if you are not handling things well, you have to at least APPEAR that your are.
3. Don't beg them to come back. This is sometimes the last resort after a few other methods have been tried. It seems like a natural thing. We see it in the movies all the time. However, in this situation you will seem like you are having trouble holding on to things. Hold your chin up and look tall and your ex will be more attracted to you.
If you have done any of the above things then don't worry. Stop now and plan what your going to do. With a plan you give yourself the highest chance of success. - 30299
Here are 3 things not to do:
1. Do not try to contact your ex. After splitting you must observe a period of no-contact. It sets the stage for what is to follow. If you continually attempt to text or call your ex they will be pushed away. Try not to go down this route.
How do you think your ex will feel when the telephone rings? They will be thinking "Oh no! Is that my ex again?" You don't want them to think negatively about you. You want them to be reminded of the good times whenever their thoughts turn to you.
2. Do not cling on to them. If you act needy and try to get their attention they will think badly of you. They will feel pressured and this will cause problems.
Showing that you can stand on your own two feet with self-respect and dignity will make you attractive to your ex. It will start the process of creating doubt in their mind as they will think you are handling things well. Even if you are not handling things well, you have to at least APPEAR that your are.
3. Don't beg them to come back. This is sometimes the last resort after a few other methods have been tried. It seems like a natural thing. We see it in the movies all the time. However, in this situation you will seem like you are having trouble holding on to things. Hold your chin up and look tall and your ex will be more attracted to you.
If you have done any of the above things then don't worry. Stop now and plan what your going to do. With a plan you give yourself the highest chance of success. - 30299
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It's possible to learn how to win your ex back. It's possible to do anything in life if you plan. Get yourself a system and stick with it. Do not allow your feelings control your actions. That is how to win back your ex.
